tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post3611710085872974448..comments2024-02-12T09:56:09.053-05:00Comments on The Matador Word: February 6 HomilyThe Matadorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15691990950873810610noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post-15419076291219069702011-02-13T18:06:58.034-05:002011-02-13T18:06:58.034-05:00Young people today really don't stand a chance...Young people today really don't stand a chance! Teen magazines are soft porn. I am horrified for my children to see the headlines on the cover of magazines like Cosmopolitan (once a relatively decent magazine) in the supermarket line. In my Glamour magazine this month, there's an article about a woman who is a virgin at 27, and yes, they think that is newsworthy and weird. So newsworthy in fact, that a NY newspaper put the article entitled "The Last Virgin in NYC" on the cover!! The subject chalks it up to religious guilt and hangups. Then she goes on to say how she lost her virginity and has since had sex with three men. In that same magazine this month, there is another article about choosing to have a baby on your own...without a husband...just because you can. What?? My niece is in college and I am horrified at how she and her friends dress. There is no modesty anymore. Women today are taught that they are "empowered" if they are sexually aggressive towards a man. I even saw a magazine article that said a woman should "wait until the third date until sleeping with a man", like that is "making him wait." Before you write me off as an old lady, I am 41 years old ---- not too far removed from the dating scene. And let me tell you, when I was dating, there wasn't a man alive who would stay with a woman who wouldn't "put out." Even "good Catholic" men who went to church every week expected it. Our society is so messed up and twisted, that the good is presented as weird/bad; and the evil is presented as normal/good.<br />Let's intensify our prayers for our young people! They don't stand a chance without it.bluebudgiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09742042697528201365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post-24407962034178996092011-02-13T14:17:44.760-05:002011-02-13T14:17:44.760-05:00Thank you, Matador, for offering your reflections ...Thank you, Matador, for offering your reflections for us to ponder – even in your absence. I greatly appreciate this extra effort on your part to assist us – and encourage us – in our own reflection about God in our lives and our participation in His work.<br /><br />I found the Matador’s and my companion bloggers’ comments to be inspirational on the sacrament of marriage. I, too, am married, and like the rest of you find it to be a beautiful vocation – filled with gifts. But as those before me stated, it is not an easy road – and like all vocations, can only be lived to its fullest and its best through the grace of God, which includes support from community. I am inspired that the priests of the parish have “joined forces” on this important topic in their preaching. I truly believe we are “in a battle” in this world of good against evil. Evil is alluring – appealing to human desire. It is not surprising that the evil forces trick us to think we can avoid loneliness and fulfill some bodily desire with something which also thwarts the growth of a sacrament that is foundational to a healthy society. With the help of Catholic teaching defended by our shepherds, and with the support of a strong community, I believe headway is made in fighting the battle.<br /><br />As to the Catholic Charities Appeal, while I truly appreciate the discomfort with the rudimentary tasks, I appreciate the “pause” it forces me to take in considering the social mission of the Church, and my own part in it. Personally, it helps me take account of my actions – and my pocketbook – making certain that I’m taking concrete steps to practice with my life what I say I believe in my heart.anon 1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post-38377894278116929712011-02-08T13:45:36.045-05:002011-02-08T13:45:36.045-05:002/13
Fr. Estok's comments are just beautiful a...2/13<br />Fr. Estok's comments are just beautiful and true.<br />As I am getting closer to my 50 wedding anniversary, I only can tell to all of you that are in love, ready to be married, congratulations, you choose a wonderful and challenging life.<br />If I tell you that my life with my husband has been easy, I am lying to you, we had and still <br />we have difficult times together. <br />What we learned living for so many years together is to tolerate and accept each other<br />the way God made us. We are different in many ways, particularly in the way we show our love to each other. It used to be at one time that the way I love HAD to be the way he/she had to love me. Big mistake!<br />We resolve problems by communicating with each other and ask for forgiveness when in need, this can be hard.<br />Respecting,accepting,trusting,selfcommitment,<br />sacrificing for each other is a good way to "success". <br />I agree with Fr. E. Co-habitation "sounds" very rewarding for so many, they can give you many reasons... financial, we have to try if we can live together, we want to see if we can have a satisfying sex life before we married..<br />What? Well, if you are not my type, see you later.. no commitment, no responsibilities.<br /><br />Still I remember my wedding preparations, the anticipation of going to sleep with my love for the first time in my wedding night, finally<br />together, no mama, no papa around!<br />This moment is blessed indeed. <br /> <br />Final though, Our society put so much emphasis on intimacy during married life, this is only part of it, there are so many other areas to work for, so if your sex life is not so great<br />my is not either, and here I am happy with my man, asking the Lord to continue blessing us forever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post-1405914245390858042011-02-07T21:13:05.519-05:002011-02-07T21:13:05.519-05:00This is so beautiful, it is simply breath taking -...This is so beautiful, it is simply breath taking - this containing description of marriage.<br /><br />when I was a little girl and well into my teens - this is exactly what I believed marriage to be.. it was MY “fairytale.”<br /><br />I never forgot it, and. . . eventually came to believe it didn’t exist. . it WAS a fairytale. <br /><br />At my age now, and what this world continues to become - I am not so sure that I am wrong about it not existing.<br /><br />I realize how negative this - what I say - may sound – however, I believe one has to be at a certain spiritual ‘level’ or something like that in order to obtain TRUE marriage, at least for me it does – not sure how else to describe it. <br /> <br />. . . that does not exist ‘out here’ for those who seek SPIRITUAL AND BODILY marriage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2514529524983639875.post-6033090334374991122011-02-07T20:26:14.128-05:002011-02-07T20:26:14.128-05:00Father-I am so grateful to you for committing to s...Father-I am so grateful to you for committing to such an important (and challenging) topic this coming Sunday. Along with contraception, cohabitation has become the "elephant in the living room" in so many of our Catholic communities. Your points are all excellent. Marriage is incredibly beautiful and rich, but it is also very, very challenging...thanks be to God for sacramental graces!! I wish that all young couples in love would have the courage to enter into such an amazing adventure as marriage. Young people are so afraid of the crosses of marriage that they miss out on the Easters. They imagine the ties of love to be a kind of slavery because they don't really understand love.<br /><br />When I married, I was 19, naive, and hadn't thought out a bit of my future. Some may have seen those things as alarming, but it did allow me to "foolishly" abandon myself to sacrificial love. I didn't have time to be so wise as to over-think the thing. I took a leap and God caught me on a net of grace. Easy? Not at all. Beautiful? You betcha. (And it has helped to have a level-headed groom!)<br /><br />Praying that the Holy Spirit will guide the words of our good priests and open ears and soften hearts of those who are in need of it.melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08677295427283294982noreply@blogger.com